The Start of Something New

Each time I date a new guy, my girlfriends are the first to know. I appreciate their advises and comments. No doubt I have received numerous feedbacks (mainly negative ones) about the men I date but I have shoved them aside and responded by saying that I'll prove them wrong. I sometimes regret for not listening to my girls. If memory serves me well, the longest I have ever been in a serious relationship is 15 months with a guy who is one of my close friends now. If it doesn't work, it doesn't! Simple logic.

I'm not here to talk about my past relationships cause 1) most of you reading this might know most of it; 2) its the past, the good memories I will cherish, the bad ones I have left it by the drain at Masjid Jamek. I'm here today to tell you that for once, (and I stress again) FOR ONCE, I know that I made the right choice and if anything happens to this relationship, its going to hurt me most.  

Lessons to learn (and Thank YOU, James):

a) You do not start a relationship through social networks

b) You do not start a relationship because of one drunken night in the club

c) You do not start a relationship because you had an affair with him once upon a time

d) The process of courtship is vital to start a healthy relationship

e) The 3Ts: Tell, Truth, Trust.

The start of something new. Unanimously, my best buddies have given me their full support (except that YPS has to stop calling him by that name but don't worry, its a problem that can be solved)

xoxo, -carmen-